How much does a first date cost in Oakland, CA?
A full night out on a first date in Oakland costs about $267 for two, according to MoneyLion (2026-07-08).
That full night out costs 25% more than the 50-city average of $214, which makes Oakland the #9 priciest of the 50 cities MoneyLion priced. Want to spend less? A coffee, a walk or one of the activity ideas below costs a fraction of dinner and a movie, and nationally daters report spending $92.91 on a first date on average.
Who pays? In a national survey, 38.8% of daters said they prefer to pay in full, 33.7% prefer to split and 27.4% said their date usually pays (JG Wentworth survey (2026-04-08)). City-level who-pays numbers for Oakland will appear here once readers submit their first dates.
Published figures Seed data
| What's included | Cost for two | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Full night out (dinner w/ wine + tip, movie, round-trip taxi, two drinks) | $267 | MoneyLion (2026-07-08), rank 9 of 50 (1 = priciest) |
| Three-course dinner for two with wine (before tip) | $129 | MoneyLion (2026-07-08) |
| Taxi, round trip | $60 | MoneyLion (2026-07-08) |
Each source prices a different basket, so the numbers are not averaged together.
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Submit a Oakland first date Estimate a date hereDate ideas in Oakland
Skip the default dinner and book something you can do together:
- Food or tasting tour (affiliate link)
Graze your way across town. It keeps the conversation moving, and nobody has to pick one restaurant. - Cooking class for two (affiliate link)
Make dinner together instead of just ordering it. Built-in teamwork and a story to tell afterwards. - Comedy show or live music (affiliate link)
Easy laughs and less pressure to talk the whole time. Grab a drink after if it's going well.
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Compare other cities
Also in CA: Bakersfield ($172) · Fresno ($201) · Long Beach ($233) · Los Angeles ($274) · Sacramento ($219) · San Diego ($201) · San Francisco ($281) · San Jose ($242)
Similar cost for a full night out: Boston ($272) · Seattle ($256) · Chicago ($245)
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